http://tinybuddha.com/blog/change-leads-unconditional-self-confidence/Most of us have been taught to have conditional confidence. We can feel good and confident when things are going well, but we struggle to keep motivated when things are hard. We are hard on ourselves when we slip up. We are critical, judgmental, and harsh.http://tinybuddha.com/blog/7-things-to-remember-when-you-think-youre-not-good-enough/
You have to fully accept and make peace with the “now” before you can reach and feel satisfied with the “later.”
You can’t hate your way into loving yourself.